As many parents and family members who have children with special needs, it can be quite an ordeal to do even the typical activities for your other children. My 4 year old was determined to have a party, the first we have had for either of our boys. I wisely brought a babysitter so I could concentrate on Jack and making sure he had a good time on his birthday, while our sitter, Sara could make sure Conor had fun. And if he wasn’t having fun, well she could take him somewhere else (good call). Conor lasted about an hour and a half then had to go for a car ride. Jack had a great day and I believe Conor had some fun and was not too stressed about the event.